Compermise
People say a relastionship is built around Comunication, Trust and Comprimise. (sp) No longer is it built on love and friendship. Its all about Comprimise. Comprimise is suppose to mean giving up things to better the whole. People Comprimise things all thier life. In essance Life is about Comprimise, not just relationships.
Every morning when people wake up they are making choices aka they are comprimising something. Ex. When the alarm clock goes off some choose to comprimise eating breakfast for a few extra hours of sleep. At work people comprimise taking up smoking so they can take a 5 min smoke break every 2 hours. Well in love people comprimise almost everything. Everything from spending time alone, to were to eat and what people to hang out with. Its all about comprimising so you dont piss off the other person.
Like take KC and I forinstance. We are moving into this new place that we have been fixing up. Well I wish to put certain things in 'our' bedroom that KC is only allowing a bookshelf for. So in essance out of the WHOLE room that is suppose to be ours I am suppose to make a 'comprimise' to have only a small bookshelf as my space. Now this annoys me so I had to say something about it. Well it came down to KC saying I dont comprimise for anything I never give. In other words I must bend over and kiss KC's ass cuz he doesnt feel Ive givin up anything for him. Well in our appartment there is NOTHING of mine from my old place in our bedroom. It wasnt 'allowed' KC said he didnt want it so I said fine... Hmm to me that sounds like a what? A comprimise. In our appartment I didnt want nudie pics on the wall and in the middle of our living room there is a girl layin on the beach at it says 'got lotion?" Hmmm yet another thing I didnt get a say in.
Now I cant blame KC for this cuz I made the choice but I didnt leave state for school because I didnt want to jepridize"sp" our relationship. I knew that he wouldnt move and having been in a long-distance relationship before I know they hardly ever work out. So hmmm lets see if I didnt go alway for school isnt that yet again I gave up something BIG? I guess I dont get it.
I guess comprimise means something different to different people. And I guess in KC's mind comprimise means He has to live with me, and I have to be okay with whatever he wants.
Every morning when people wake up they are making choices aka they are comprimising something. Ex. When the alarm clock goes off some choose to comprimise eating breakfast for a few extra hours of sleep. At work people comprimise taking up smoking so they can take a 5 min smoke break every 2 hours. Well in love people comprimise almost everything. Everything from spending time alone, to were to eat and what people to hang out with. Its all about comprimising so you dont piss off the other person.
Like take KC and I forinstance. We are moving into this new place that we have been fixing up. Well I wish to put certain things in 'our' bedroom that KC is only allowing a bookshelf for. So in essance out of the WHOLE room that is suppose to be ours I am suppose to make a 'comprimise' to have only a small bookshelf as my space. Now this annoys me so I had to say something about it. Well it came down to KC saying I dont comprimise for anything I never give. In other words I must bend over and kiss KC's ass cuz he doesnt feel Ive givin up anything for him. Well in our appartment there is NOTHING of mine from my old place in our bedroom. It wasnt 'allowed' KC said he didnt want it so I said fine... Hmm to me that sounds like a what? A comprimise. In our appartment I didnt want nudie pics on the wall and in the middle of our living room there is a girl layin on the beach at it says 'got lotion?" Hmmm yet another thing I didnt get a say in.
Now I cant blame KC for this cuz I made the choice but I didnt leave state for school because I didnt want to jepridize"sp" our relationship. I knew that he wouldnt move and having been in a long-distance relationship before I know they hardly ever work out. So hmmm lets see if I didnt go alway for school isnt that yet again I gave up something BIG? I guess I dont get it.
I guess comprimise means something different to different people. And I guess in KC's mind comprimise means He has to live with me, and I have to be okay with whatever he wants.
posted by S. at 9:37 PM
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